People pleaser?

I came to this theory where a girl can define other girls by their prettiness but a guy can never rate other guys by their looks. Do you think it's true? I once asked my brother who does he think looks handsome in his favorite football club which happens to be Manchester United, and he only answered “… all of ‘em has good skills” But clearly I asked who looks HANDSOME. His respond was “Don’t ask me I can never tell, I’m a guy” Then it hit me and made me realized that some guys oftenly can’t define other guys by their looks. But how come a girl can rate a girl by their prettiness easily? Maybe cause girls are competitive they always compare themselves with others “ooh she’s prettier than me” “aah she’s ugly, I’m prettier” can easily slip out of a girl’s tongue cause we, as girls really care about our looks. But you don't have to be a victoria's secret model to find your channing tatum. <3 

I’m in high school now and I meet different people with a whole lot of different personalities. It turns out that you have to look good in a certain group of people, my junior high school was never like that. We never had to wear pretty clothes and use make up. Simply cause we didn’t judge each other. But frankly, now I live in a world where looks and appearances matters. I don’t know how in the world could I ever survive this kind of phase. I’m just gonna hope for the best but expecting the worst.

In high school, I realized one thing. I do what people ask me to because I don’t want them to feel bad. I’m a people pleaser. I do what people please but I sometimes don’t get anything in return. Some things has to change here. But frankly I feel good about it. You know, being a people pleaser has its own minus and plus. The good thing is that people enjoy being around you, the opposite thing is that it’s like you’re leaving under everybody else’s shadow. The key is to speak up and learn to say “no” for once in a while. 

Can we just take a second and admire these cute pandas made out of  clay? I know it sounds cheesy but it is far yet the most beautiful thing I have ever seen that is originally hand-made. Massive thank's to tante eike for all this<3